Confidence Spills Over

In this part

• The change other people notice first
• Confidence has a mechanism, not a mood
• Why being told you're capable never quite lands
• Confidence shows up in the body before it shows up anywhere else
• Read your own physical presence panel
• The internal calculation that actually decides the ask
• What the deferred ask is actually costing you
• The presence you have left over for other people
• Where your relational capacity is thinnest
• Measuring your spillover against someone else's timeline
• The confidence inventory
• Sort what actually counts as evidence
• Trace the confidence to its real source
• What happens when the results dip
• Write the identity statement
• Stress-test your identity statement
• Not everyone will be comfortable with the change
• What keeps the spillover going after the novelty fades
• The two places this gets tested for real
• The story that still lags the evidence